Bullying is a very challenging behaviour for both schools and parents to deal with.  However it is not something that can be ignored because the potential consequences are very serious.  The signs below are taken from a fact sheet produced by 'The Line' website - a government initiative to help teenagers with relationship issues here in Australia (where I am holidaying at the moment :-) )

Signs of bullying

 Unexplained cuts, bruises or scratches

 Damaged or ripped clothing

 Damaged or missing belongings

 Vague headaches or stomach aches

 Refusal to go to school

 Tearfulness or depression

 Lack/Loss of confidence and anxiety

 Negative personality changes

 An unwillingness to leave the house

 Aggressive or bullying behaviour towards other family members

What if your child is the bully?

It can be hard to accept that our child is the bully but if this is the case, know that bullies operate out of a place of low self-esteem, inadequacy and feelings of powerlessness and this can often be changed with help and understanding.

6 indicators that a child might use bullying behaviour

They …

 Are impulsive, hot-headed and dominant

 Can be easily frustrated and have trouble reigning in feelings.

 Show a lack of empathy or compassion

 Have difficulty following rules

 View violence in a positive way

 Show little remorse or refuse to take responsibility for their actions


If you suspect your child is being bullied or that they are bullying others, there is a lot that you can do.  A great start would be to check out this site devoted entirely to addressing bullying.